Introduction to 30: A Newbie 2 Da Game

Iam actually 29 yrs old and will be turning 30 in just a few months. Ahhhhh-how I love being a woman, let me count the ways…..

Although, I haven't hit the 30 mark yet, I've felt the change coming on for a while now.  I've come to the realization that a woman goes through certain stages in her life. For example the "roaring 20's", which is what I like to call it:)  This time consists of a woman just getting her
feet wet. Learning the art of discovery so to speak. Around that age I started really thinking about what career field I wanted to get into.  I dabbled a little in the serial dating scene, lol.  I just wanted  to figure out what I liked/didn't like in a potential mate.  Feel a few guys out, be carefree and not give a damn. Basically, my 20's were all about testing the waters, making a few mistakes and learning from them.  Children or committed relationships were the furthest thing from my mind. Then when I hit 26 I slowed down a bit. I really started putting everything into perspective. Career, Finances and setting future goals for myself.  One of those goals also included finding my MAN. I had this overwhelming urge to just get my LIFE together!!!

With 30 right around the corner, I am approaching a new era in my life.  I definitely feel like everything is coming full circle. I am taking on new projects, even started a blog and currently building a 2nd one. I also realized that the entire "club" scene and rowdy crowds is just not my thang. Something that used to get me super crunk when I was 20 now, totally turns me off. I actually just want to settle down and take things slow, whether it be work, partying or relationships. Speaking of, that's another thing that I am so happy that I have at this point in my life. I am in a solid, committed, healthy relationship.  Everything is work, but it's been well worth it. I can honestly say that I am in a good place in my life. Things can always get better, but as of right now I can't complain. I am ready to take on whatever the world of the "dirty 30's" has to offer-so bring it on-HA! It's time to love hard, live hard and rejoice. I am ready for it all, career, marriage, family and whatever else life is gonna throw at me. For me, NOW is the time! Thirty here I come! Ready, Set, here I GOOOOOOOOOO………..

L